十一两天感悟

     十一晚上把《明日边缘》看完了，里面有我最喜欢的男女主角——汤姆克鲁斯和艾米莉布朗特的精彩演出，当然打动我的肯定不止这些，这部电影同样也给我带来很多启示，在其他电影中也同样可以找到，最典型的当属《风雨哈弗路》，这部电影激励我度过了漫长而又艰难的九月，不过现在回头看看，所有的努力都是值得的，感到的是对自己的肯定与骄傲，实现了日历表上的大部分内容。好了，回到正题，总体来讲，对我的启发和感悟主要有：

1 每天保持危机感——我更喜欢把它称为不安全感，跳出自己认为舒适的小圈，才能真正磨练出强大的能力。

2 没有“但是”——人们总爱这么说“我想去做这件事，但是……”。前半句表达了自己的美好愿望，后半句表达了客观条件的残酷，认为做这件事非常难几乎不可能。我不敢说所有的事都是可能的，但是我可以确定其中有很多是可以完成的，但是需要制定好计划和时间表——灵活的策略（如改善优化的方法，缩短完成的时间）——强大的执行力。人们之所以不愿这么做，是因为他们给自己找了一个“但是”的借口，这样就可以心安理得的回到他们舒服的生活区。

3想做一件事，现在就去做——我也有些拖延症的毛病，有些个事总是光想就是不愿意做，比如这次打算找工作，总是成天想可不可能实现啊，十一晚上在51job网上收集一下信息，发现原来有很多和自己需求相近的工作，锁定了一些工作需求，比自己成天停留在空想要好很多了。这件事充分说明了动手的重要性，不要一开始就总是评估可不可能实现或干脆放弃，我们生命中发生的每件事最重要的不是结果而是过程，先采取行动试试说不定就会发现其中蕴藏着很多转机。

     On October 1st evening, I watched the movie named”Edge of Tomorrow”,which is performed by two of my most favorable actor and actress——Tom Cruise and Emily Blunt.Of course they are not the only thing that touched me,but this movie bring me a lot of enlightment as well.They also exist in other movies,particularly in the movie named “Homeless to Harward”,which inspires me to go through the lengthy and full of difficult September.However,when I look back on this period,all the efforts are not in vain,and I feel affirmative and proud of myself at the same time for finishing the most part of contents in the calendar table.Now that is enough,let’s come back to our original topic.Altogether,what inspires me most and gives me the most reflections mainly include the following three aspects.

1 Keep sense of dangers every day—— I prefer to call it as unsafety feelings,which means only by getting away from the small clique you are used to live with,can you obtain the strong ability in need.

2 Never say ‘but’——People always likes to say “I would like to do this,but it is just….”The former half section expresses the fantastic desires people hope,however,the cruelty of the real condition is what the second half part provides for us.Most of people often hold on a perception that in this matter there are full of difficults,almost no any other possibility to achieve that.But I can assure you many of them can be realized by the good established plans and timetable,the flexible strategy such as the improvement on the method of optimizing and shortening the time of finishing, and then the powerful execution.The only reason people are not willing to  do that is because they gave themselves an excuse called”but”,so that they can return to their cozy areas with peaceful consciences.

3 Don’t hestate,do it now—— I admit I have kind of procrastination.Time is often occupied by thinking rather than doing in some matters.Just take this recent job seeking for example,I always waste my time on whether it’s possible to realize or not all the time. At evening of October 1st I looked for the information of recruitment, it turns out that there are many opportunities that are close to my requirements.Therefore, I could aim at some ones instead of always staying in the daydream.This example fully embodies the vital importance of taking actions.Dont’t always wonder whether this matter is possible to achieve or just give it up from the very beginning.It is the process of everything in our lives that really matters rather than the eventual outcome. By taking actions,many turning points concealed from the matter might show up.