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001 8 Things woman look for in a man
Number 1, money. Of course we're going to put money first on this list, otherwise we'd never hear the end of it from you guys. but money represents more than stacks of paper with dead people on it. women look for how much a man earns in order to quantify the level of respect society is offering him. yep, this is the world we live in. money is a measurement of success and everybody wants to be with someone who's successful. but men judge other men by this as well, so get off your high horse. when someone asks you what you do for a living, they're usually trying to determine if you're above or below them on an economic scale. something we want to make clear from the very start, money only impresses lazy girls. when a woman works hard herself, a man with money is just a bonus, not a ladder to an upgrade. if all your partner looks for in you is money, you're bound to have an unhappy life.
Number 2, social status. for most women, this is even more valuable than money, social status is something that's been with us from the early days and it's being genetically embedded within us. in the animal kingdom, the alpha male gets to mate with all the females because they are genetically programmed to procreate and carry the genes of the most capable specimen, this still is the case in many Arab countries where a man can have multiple wives. polygamy is not as uncommon as you think, it is around the world. social status grants a person respect of the people who are under them in the hierarchy.
Number 3, charisma. charisma is something different, most men think they have it but very few actually do. it's more of a chemical imbalance in the brain that drives people to be charismatic. charisma or charm is the combination of physical hormonal attraction and excitement generated by someone's way of being.
Number 4, confidence. women want someone who can take initiative who trusts his abilities, if you don't believe in yourself how do you expect others to do it. confidence is one of the most attractive traits in a partner. this state is usually generated by a track record of successful performances. it's a lot easier to look confident about public speaking when it's your twentieth talk on the topic and the previous ones were received successfully. A confident man is someone who knows successes within his reach, it's easy to lack it when you've never done anything like this. if you're tired of looking down on yourself, if you're not happy with the way things are going for you or where your life is going. it might be time to slap yourself back to reality. if you don't change your life will only get worse, you need to build yourself up from the ground if you're going to become the man or woman who's going to escape this trap, you've built yourself into.
Number 5, a shared sense of humor. laughter brings people together, so why is this important, it's because laughter releases endorphins in your brain, relieving stress and makes someone feel comfortable and safe around you. Being funny is actually a sign of intellect, not just anybody can be funny and not everybody finds the same things hilarious that's why it's such an amazing thing when you simply click with someone, when you're thinking the same thing and you get each other's jokes.
Number 6, someone who can protect or take care of them. there's an internal need for shelter and security. everybody wants in their lives, it's actually the second level in Maslow spirit of needs, ranking just above food water and warmth. this doesn't necessarily mean a partner that can fight an entire army for her, although physical protection is a dominating factor of differentiation between men, but more so, somebody who will be there to hold her hand and walk alongside her through life's difficulties, the underlying need is to feel safe when she's being held in your arms, it should feel like home.
Number 7, someone who's gonna stand up for her. this is another big thing, it doesn't mean getting your ass whooped, just because your girl has a loud mouth and can't hold her liquor, No, it means that you're in this together. you've got her back and she's got yours, you're a team. partners a squad of two never allow anybody to disrespect the people you love and care about. Not because of personal pride, but because this is your internal metric for how much you value the relationship. real men don't need to fight anyone to communicate his value. Stand up for her because it's the right thing to do, not because you want to put on a show.
Number 8, someone who can build her up. we're all looking for partners that make us stronger, who helped us evolve become a better version of ourselves, your relationship must help you grow, not necessarily change, but develop the positives and remove the negatives . most women look for a man who encourages her to pursue her dreams. who's there to help her up when she falls down, and who's not threatened by her potential success. we are sculpting each other through our relationships, and it's important for the other person to have both the skills and the desire to turn marble into the Piazza. in return she will do the same for you.
002 6 Things Men look for in a Woman
looks.we wanted to take care of this one straight out the gate, the way a person looks tells the world a lot about who this person is. your aspect is like your personal life resume stapled to your forehead. in terms of physical appearance, men have different preferences but they all want you to be healthy. they want to know you're taking care of yourself and of your body, this translates to the flush of your skin, the fitness of your body and the energy the person is putting out, make an effort to look better and make it a priority, because when you look great, you feel great.
good taste, good taste and good vibes are so important in that chemistry is flowing in the air, there's something about a woman that understands beauty and quality that makes them attractive, you're supposed to explore the beauty of the world together and see how much of it you can implement in your own life, that's what fine living is all about. In order to understand what poor taste is, you first need to be able to tell the difference.
Reliable, honest and emotionally stable. These three all fall into the same characteristic, basically you need to know you can count on the person you're with to be truthful with you. to keep their word and not act all crazy for no reason. being with someone who's not like this is draining, difficult and it makes you not enjoy life. these are some of the most important traits you can improve in your life, you'll see that most of your relationships with others, personal or professional are directly influenced by how high you rank on these three. the more reliable you are perceived to be, the quicker you'll progress financially and professionally. people know they can count on you to deal with emerging problems, in the same way, your partner will know that you are emotionally stable and you can be there for them when things take a turn for the worse.
Comforting Character & Guiding Light. to her partner, her children, to the people around her. a successful life is one of collaboration, because the world is harsh, it's harsh out there, it's stressful, it's dangerous, it's exhausting. at the end of a long day, when you're together with a high value woman, your life calms down, it doesn't matter if you're a man or a woman, if you come home and your partner is ready to argue, to fight, doesn't do what they say they'll do, this will only add more stress to your life. A high value woman has the capacity to understand what the next steps are, and where effort and attention should go, that's why she's a guiding light.
She Is Self-Aware And Empathic, she is capable of communication that is both reasonable and empathetic. With incredibly high emotional intelligence, she can observe, respect, and accept her thoughts and feelings, as well as the emotions of others. and she is eager to understand and encourage others. She is not judgemental and accepts everyone as they are.
She Is Kind And Compassionate. This woman shows compassion to everyone, not just a select few. Whether you’re her best friend or her waiter, she’ll treat you with respect. True beauty lies within and is revealed in how you treat others, and a high-value woman is beautiful in this regard. In addition to valuing herself, she values all living things. If you’re not sure if you’re around a high-value woman, consider these questions. Does her presence bring an unexplainable warmth that radiates gentle love? Does she care about others and show it? If the answer is yes, you’ve found a high-value woman.
003 Friend
So, have you seen Angella lately?
Yeah, I see her pretty often. we walk together at caffee latte.
How's she doing, I'v been meaning to call her.
Well, to be honest, I've always thought she was a little difficult but these days I find her impossible.
what do you mean？
oh you know how she is, she has such strong ideas about everything and if you don't agree with her she lets you know what she thinks of you.
yes that's true but that's why we love her, right?
yeah I guess so, but she's changed a lot since she started college, she talks about herself all the time and she always manages to mention how good she is in everything she does.
hmm maybe I won't call her after all.
are you going to James's party on Saturday?
of course, James always gives the best parties and there are always lots of interesting new people to meet
that's true, I don't know where he manages to find them all
well, you know what he's like. he makes friends really easily. he really likes talking to people and he loves inviting people over
uh-huh, he invited me for dinner, what a fee!
yeah, he's a great cook, too.
after dinner, I offered to help clean up and he told me not to worry about it. he said he'd take care of it in the morning, he was like "it's nothing no big deal"
yep, that sounds like James
have you met the new apartment manager, Mr Johnson?
hmm yeah I met him last week, he's a little strange.
yeah he is. I'm not sure I like him. he's hard to predict, sometimes he's pretty cheerful and talkative, and the next day he doesn't even say hello. I think he must have personal problems or something.
I think you're right and if you notice that half the time when he says he's going to do something he never actually does it. he told me three times he'd come to fix the light in my kitchen and he still hasn't!
004 Job
So where are you working this summer. Carlos I'm working as a tutor in a learning center for kids.
interesting, what things do the kids do there.
they work on subjects they need help in, uh mainly math and English.
is your job hard
no not at all the kids work on computers most of the time. we have to help them get started and when they run into problems
do you enjoy it
oh yes, working with kids is so much more fun than working with adults, and I get to choose my own hours, as long as I work eight hours a day, I can come in at any time from 8 AM to 9pm.
Lucky You.
Palm, didn't find a summer job yet
yeah, I'm working in a restaurant.
oh how's it going
oh the money's not bad.
what are you doing are you waiting tables
I wish, no I'm working in the kitchen, I cut up stuff for the chef, vegetables and meat and things. I also wash the dishes
oh yuck.
yeah it's pretty hard work, I didn't realize how hot it is in a restaurant kitchen until I took this job
so why don't you quit
I'd love to, but I need the money.
so what kind of job did you find for the summer
I'm working for a marketing company, I'm doing telephone marketing.
oh, so you're one of those people who drives me crazy by calling me up and trying to persuade me to buy something that I have absolutely no need for.
exactly.
do you like it
believe it or not I do, it's mostly a bunch of students working there and we have a lot of fun when we're not making calls it's really easy too since we just have to read from a script
are you doing this full time
yes, but I work from two in the afternoon until 11 at night. so I get to sleep as late as I want to in the morning.
005The Newsroom 'America is not the greatest country in the world anymore
Jaren is a very funny woman, but she has less faith in American individualism than an idea.
By the way, I never said that Barack Obama was a socialist. Seriously, what I said and what I have always said, Monday morning, that shows you, hundreds of times calling the president, the president of the definition, my friend, they're social by your definition, so were Ronald Reagan.
American individualism can't build roads, an individual can't build a school or assemble an army. Understanding the Army, government is good for that.
Yes, yes, fine, on your shows, or should it be a private, private fire department that only comes to your burning house if you paid your monthly fireworks? I am more than happy to pay for the fire department. I am not happy to pay for a painting that I don't want to look at.
Because you cannot skip right to the Army because there's trillions of dollars of the federal budget and is Cove or New York Jewish perverted and gay. Will? Yes, sir, anything to add? I think we need a more precise definition of perverted. Okay, we'll go on to the next question.
You, sir? My name's Stephen, I'm a junior and my question's for Will McAvoy. Do you consider yourself a Democrat, a Republican, or independent? I consider myself a New York Jets fan, Stephen. Since it's been brought up, you've almost religiously avoided stating or even implying a political allegiance. Is that because as a news anchor, you feel the integrity of your broadcast would be compromised? That sounds like a good answer. I'll take it.
There was a short piece on Vanity Fair's website by Marshall Westbrook. You probably saw it, where he calls you the Jay Leno of news anchors. You're popular because you don't bother anyone. Yeah, how do you feel about that? Jealous of the size of Jay's audience? Are you willing to say here tonight whether you lean right or left? I voted for candidates run by both major parties. Let's move on to the next question. Go ahead.
Hi, my name is Jenny. I'm a sophomore, and this is for all three of you. Can you say in one sentence or less what, um, you know what I mean?
Can you say why America is the greatest country in the world?
Diversity and opportunity. Louis.
Freedom and freedom, so let's keep it that way. Well, the New York Jets.
No, I'm gonna hold you to an answer on that. What makes America the greatest country in the world?
Well, Louis and Sharon said it. Diversity and opportunity and freedom and freedom.
I'm not letting you go back to the airport without answering the question.
Well, our constitution is a masterpiece. James Madison was a genius. The Declaration of Independence is for me the single greatest piece of American writing.
You don't look satisfied.
Once a set of laws and the other is a declaration of war. I want a human moment from you. What about the people?
Why is it not the greatest country in the world, Professor? That's my answer.
You're saying yes.
Let's talk about fine. The Sharon the Nea is a loser. Yeah, it accounts for a penny out of our paycheck, but he gets to hit you with it anytime he wants. It doesn't cost money. It costs votes. It costs air time and column inches.
You know why people don't like liberals? Because they lose. If liberals are so smart, how come they lose so goddamn always?
Hey, and with a straight face, you're gonna tell students that America is so Star-Spangled awesome that we're the only ones in the world who have freedom?
Canada has freedom, Japan has freedom, the UK, France, Italy, Germany, Spain, Australia, Belgium has freedom. So, 207 sovereign states in the world, like 180 of them have freedom, all right?
And yeah, you, Sorority Girl, just in case you accidentally wander into a voting booth one day, there's some things you should know, and one of them is there is absolutely no evidence to support the statement that we're the greatest country in the world.
We're seventh in literacy, 27th in math, 22nd in science, 49th in life expectancy, 178th in infant mortality, third in median household income, number four in the labor force, and number four in exports.
We lead the world in only three categories: number of incarcerated citizens per capita, number of adults who believe angels are real, and defense spending, where we spend more than the next 26 countries combined, 25 of whom are allies.
Now, none of this is the fault of a 20-year-old college student, but you nonetheless are without a doubt a member of the worst period generation period ever period.
So, when you ask what makes us the greatest country in the world, I don't know what the hell you're talking about.
Yosemite? Sure used to be. We stood up for what was right. We fought for moral reasons. We passed laws, struck down laws, for moral reasons. We waged Wars on poverty, not poor people. We sacrificed. We cared about our neighbors. We put our money where our mouths were, and we never beat our chest.
We built great, big things, made ungodly technological advances, explored the universe, cured diseases, and we cultivated the world's greatest artists and the world's greatest economy. We reached for the stars, acted like men. We aspired to intelligence. We didn't belittle it. It didn't make us feel inferior. We didn't identify ourselves by who we voted for in the last election, and we didn't scare so easy.
We were able to be all these things and do all these things because we were informed by great men, men who were revered. First step in solving any problem is recognizing there is one. America is not the greatest country in the world anymore. Enough. I'm sorry. I'm taking medicine for vertigo, and I think it works because I got it. You're in trouble, man. You can't talk to me like that. You need a doctor. Jesus Christ, listen, what did I say out there?
