2020/11/11，存钱人历久常新
我不太喜欢花钱，相反，我有点喜欢存钱的感觉。喜欢看着账号的数字在上升。这仿佛是我对我往日工作的认同和评价。同时有钱不花可以给我一种安慰和安全感。我们沒有很多东西，但我们还有钱是吧，钱是英雄胆，是我们自信背后的最后一张底牌。
世界太美好，但想要体验这种美好是要付出努力的，用钱买的。我们喜欢新的东西，喜新厌旧，我们喜欢浏览新的信息，喜欢尝试新事物的一面。这些新的东西都会给我们带来快乐。于是我们倾向于买各种各样的东西以至于后来你已经忘记你的初衷。有时候我们是出于外观欣赏或者一直对它们存在想象，换句话说，是心理需求。所以我建议对这种物品有个冷静期和自己幻想期。片刻的满足快乐其实阻碍了你获得真正的美好生活。被种草本质是我懒于分辨梦幻泡影背后有多少真实，懒于追问内心真实意愿让其清晰，又放任无限的欲望，今天想要法式生活，明天向往复古典雅，满足于表层的追逐，不付出太多努力。你穿的你用的并不一定能代表你，只有你的内在才是真的。
我们的注意力很宝贵。个人来说我不喜欢我的空间里面放了很多不相干的事情，因为我觉得这些东西会让我分心。对于物品的处理，我认为应该历久常新，重新喜欢旧的自己用过的东西，一起和他们经历过的时光。以自己为中心而不是以物品为中心。让物品来配合你而不是让你来配合物品。
平衡饮食男女的关系。我们说过人不是铁板一块，堵不如疏。为了保持新鲜感，我们可以在思想境界和个人奋斗上积极进取而不是在物质享受上消耗精力。
honstly, I don't like to spend money very much. On the contrary, I kind of like to save money. like watching the amount of my bank account is increasing. This seems to be my recognition and evaluation of my previous work. Having money without spending money will give me a sense of comfort and security. We don't have a lot of things, but we still have money, right? Money is source of our confidence.
the world is so beautiful, but to experience this kind of beauty requires effort and money. We tend to new and we dislike the old, we like to browse new information, and we also like to try new styles. These new things bring us happiness. So we tend to buy all kinds of things that later you have forgotten what is you original purpose. Sometimes we only like their appearance or have a expectaion of them. In other words, that's demand of psychologic. Therefore, I recommend for these kind of stuff you can have a cooling-off period. A short term of satisfaction and happiness sometimes stop us to pursue the real good life. This kind of pursuing consumption is a bubble. that is the bubble we are lazy to identify what we literally need clearly and meanwhile we are lazy to manage our endless desire. Today, we pursue the French life, tomorrow we want the Italy lifestyle. We are satisfied with surface chase without paying any effort. These desire is countless, in contrast, your attention is limited. abviously, pursue infinite with limited, you will get confused in the process. In short, what you dress can not present you, who you are is what you are.
I mentioned the attention above. Frankly, our attention is precious, sometimes you can consider your attention as your time. Time is equal to everyone not matter who you are. Personally, I don't like to put a lot of irrelevant things in my space like my own station, but right now for this job I don't have my own station, actually you bedroom is you stataion. Back to the track, I don't like that cause I thought it will distract me. All right the opinion for these things I think is supposed to everlasting . relove again the stuff I alrealy have, try to mamerize the day you get them, and times you went thought with them. you are supposed to the center instead of the stuff.
to balance the our desire, it's better to manage them instead of blocking them totally. But the efficient way we can do is we can pursue the life chanllage instead of consuming any energy in enjoyment.
