2020/10/29，和自己的和解，社会寄望和自身寄望

　　我于之前讨论过客观和主观的区别：https://www.cnblogs.com/vhyc/p/11810855.html，人在社会飘，就是自己的主观和社会的客观全面对线的过程。诚然，社会是强大的，个人是渺小的，我们很多的初心，只能折衷，也是社会老嗨教育年轻人的一句话“还未受过社会的毒打”的体现。

　　改变社会是困难的，改变自己是可能的。我们可以主动出击调整自己的心态，人人都要兰博基尼，但真正拥有他的人有多少。所以我们要学会珍惜，感恩自己已经拥有的。基本上我们已经可以过得很温饱，删减掉一些不切实际的欲望。生活不缺少美，只是缺少发现美的眼睛。我们在社会中都有自己的生态位，从自身出发，发现身边令自己快乐的东西。让自己的快乐和社会融合，有天你可能会发现你的美酒，金表，跑车不过是一时的过眼云烟，真正要珍惜的是自己那份心态和某一刻的时间。也是说，找到你的那杯茶。

　　

　　

　　I used to discuss the nuance of objectiveness and subjectiveness, when we are living, that's the process of our subjectiveness against the objectiveness of the entire society. Frankly, compared to society, the individual is small. We used to have some of the wishes, and lots of them have to fate out by times. As a saying goes by, young have a dream before they work.

　　I admitted that changing society is difficult, but it's possible to change yourself, we can also adjust ourselves actively. Everyone wants a great car, at last, how many people can own it. it turns out we need to appreciate what we already have. Basically, we live well, reduce some unrealistic desires. Life is not short of beauty, but lack of eyes to discover them. We have our own position, started to where you are, discover again what makes you happy. After combining your happiness and society, you might find out those of good wine and the good car is unreal, what you need to appreciate is the attitude and every moment you are at, anyway, you should find your cup of tea.