2020/03/30,fake you can, like advertise
美国人有一句,fake until you make it. 我们降生这个世界上,基本都是一场白纸的开始。什么事情都要重头开始学。但当我们上了年纪的时候,我们有时候怕新的东西,很怕挑战。其实我们需要做的就是简单的just do it. 自信很重要,假装自己无所不能地挑战一切东西。在一些偶遇场景上,中国人都闷声发大财,很少炫耀自己,很谦逊。美国佬一般都是I'm great. I'm really good. 有段时间我不懂,以为他们真的天天great这么爽爆吗?后来发现都是装的,美国佬一样具有七情六欲,也有事业家庭的困扰,但也不妨碍他们天天假装great。简单来说中国人是表面无表情,心理妈卖批,美国人是嘴上excellent,心理妈卖批。
对我来说,君子论迹不论心,论心无君子。有时候我们为了维护我们的人设,会做出一些东西来。虽然人不免得落于俗套,但我们仍然可以设立一个正能量的人设,强迫自己向前走。人就像一句广告词,你在别人的脑海印象只有短短几秒和几个关键词,就像把你的一生浓缩。简单明了就好:just do it. 只有你走的够快,疲劳,痛苦都会更不上你。
There is an American saying that goes: fake until you make it. we were born without nothing. Studying all of the things from the beginning. As time goes by, we begin to be afraid of new things or challenges. Honestly, what we need to do is just do it. Being confident is the matter, sometimes we can pretend to do everything. We Chinese are restrained and humble. In contrast, American is likely to be awesome. earlier I got confused that why they feel great every day. And I found that's what they pretend. They also have hardship, but there is no barrier to stop them are doing that. simply we think a lot but not show up, and American is excellent on the surface.
Personally, what you did is defining what you are. Sometimes to maintain us, I will do something. Specially, we can set up a personality positive for us, forced us to go ahead. Just like an advert, your impression is related to some words briefly, so keep it simple that just does it. You go so fast that pain and hardship can not catch up with you.