Here is my advice to you for how to succeed at office politics without becoming a backstabber.Don't keep your head in the sand.Office politics is a reality,and it's better to participate than to pretend it doesn't exist.But remember keep it positive.
这是我给你的职场建议-如何在职场上取得成功并非去勾心斗角、暗箭伤人。办公室政治是客观存在的， 与其主观假装它根本不存在，倒不如抱着一种阳光、积极的态度参与其中。
If you are respectful to your colleagues and everyone likes you, you are less likely to get stabbed in the back.Develop good relationships with your coworkers.You never know when you need someone on your side.Do nice things for people when the opportunity comes up.Be supportive of your coworkers,and they will support you.
发展良好的同事关系是非常重要的，如果你尊重你的同事而且每个人都喜欢你，你就不太可能被人背后捅上一刀。
Also,develop good relationships with higher-ups.Seek their advice.They'll appreciate your desire to grow as an employee.
不单单是和同事建立良好的关系，也要多听取上级领导的意见，这样他们也将会欣赏你愿意去成长的热忱。
If possible,find a mentor,a more experienced colleague who can offer you valuable advice.He or she can also advocate for you when you are considered for a promotion.
如果可以的话，在工作中寻找一位资历较高的职场导师，他/她同样也会在你需要升职时拉自己的学生一把嘛！
Notice how things get done.Think about the values of the company,and gain an understanding of the culture of the organization.If you show that you like the way the company works,your boss and your boss's bosses will be happier to make you an important part of your compnay.
变得善于观察、了解公司的价值观和文化并去贯彻执行，毕竟你的老板以及你老板的老板都愿意让这种员工承担公司重要的角色。
Also get to know your coworkers. If you seek to understand your coworkers,you may avoid potential disagreements.
Top managers know that the key to management is being a good listener and taking the time to understand the needs of the people around them.
No matter how much you don't like someone,don't let your anger or annoyance show.Don't humiliate them,attack them or insult them.What goes around comes around.Your persional attack may seem justified,but by doing this, you will gain an ememy for later.
作为领导要学会认真聆听身边人的的诉求，没事多了解了解身边的同事，大家一起共事只有彼此了解才会避免一些分歧，职场没有敌人保持理性，切忌意气用事！冲动是魔鬼！ 千万别在职场中 羞辱、攻击、辱骂你的同事，善有善报恶有恶报，不是不报时候未到。
Develop your skills strategically.This advice may seem straightforward.Update your skills to be relavant to the company's plans and initatives.This will make you a value to the company and will open the doors to more opportunities and responsibilites.
这一点对于职场中的员工和领导者都是毋庸置疑的，不断得更新和学习工作相关的技能与时俱进和公司一起成长，才能使你在公司更有价值并获得更多的发展机会。
But you will surprised at how many people think office politics is more about manipulation than respect.But I don't think it has to be.Just remember,for any situation,you have the ability to choose how you will react.The choice you make now colud have important repercussoins later.
Behave wisely.This is your career we are talking about.It is not the jungle.
办公室政治贯穿我们整个职业生涯，不是逞一时之快的丛林 ，机会掌握在你自己手中，明智起来吧~~ 我们一起相互尊重、相互支持、共同进步。
