use master 
go 
declare @spid int,@bl int 
DECLARE s_cur CURSOR FOR 
select  0 ,blocked 
from (select * from sysprocesses where  blocked>0 ) a 
where not exists(select * from (select * from sysprocesses where  blocked>0 ) b 
where a.blocked=spid) 
union select spid,blocked from sysprocesses where  blocked>0 
OPEN s_cur 
FETCH NEXT FROM s_cur INTO @spid,@bl 
WHILE @@FETCH_STATUS = 0 
begin 
if @spid =0 
            select ' 引起数据库死锁的是: '+ CAST(@bl AS VARCHAR(10)) + ' 进程号, 其执行的SQL 语法如下' 
else 
            select ' 进程号SPID :'+ CAST(@spid AS VARCHAR(10))+ ' 被' + ' 进程号SPID :'+ CAST(@bl AS VARCHAR(10)) +' 阻塞, 其当前进程执行的SQL 语法如下' 
DBCC INPUTBUFFER (@bl ) 
FETCH NEXT FROM s_cur INTO @spid,@bl 
end 
CLOSE s_cur 
DEALLOCATE s_cur 
 
exec sp_who2 

运行sp_who2 ,看blk by 栏, 如果这栏不是空白, 有一个数字, 这就是造成阻塞(blocking)的线程id. 然后运行DBCC Inputbuffer(线程id), 你就可以看见这个线程在干什么。

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