mysql 允许ip访问
grant all privileges on *.* to 'root'@'ip' identified by 'password' with grant option;
flush privileges;
ip如为%,则允许所有Ip访问
8.0版本后,需要如下换成如下命令
create user 'root'@'%' identified by '123456';
grant all on *.* to 'root'@'%';
alter user 'root'@'%' identified with mysql_native_password by '123456';
flush privileges;
123456为密码